Most of us have read the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, if you haven’t read the book! I am sure you have come across this famous phrase. if you are still lost I will get the story in a line, what it talks about is both the genders have its own rules and customs and it gets really tricky while working together, if the men give out solutions to women’s problems they don’t want the answers rather they just want to talk about it. It stands true in quite a few of situations but while interpreting what women really want is not complicated at all. It is such an overstatement when boys think that girl’s reasoning cannot be understood most of the times.
Let me point out in several lines and paragraphs ::
Girls want somebody who can fight for them, might sound totally filmy but they surely want someone who could say : I am going to be right next to you or there for you when you need me. You just have to believe.These words want to be heard even when the relationships a decade old. Its not a commitment that they are looking for but reassuring that the person that they have fallen for is worth it.
It’s a fact that a women wants all the pamper-ness, she wants to be felt like a princess, not once nor twice but time and again, you need to get yourselves ready for some appreciations just to make her day, even if you are in the mood , a smile of hers is just the perfect one that you fell for.
Ladies, you love occasions and remember dates so well that you would score a 10 on ten if there was a test. Be it the first time that you were asked out, monthly-anniversaries, the first ever fight, or the smallest detailed conversation, it is etched to your heart. When you think about it, why shouldn’t it. These dates resemble a situation, a moment. When girls try to make each of your day special, even if you don’t want so much of attention, you could make one of the dates somewhere she would not forget in the longest time. Its not about expectation or payback, it’s about making her feel she is the one, when you are in the crowd, as much as when you are alone.
Women so want men to balance their personal and professional shit together. It’s not only them who have aspirations and dreams, and that doesn’t give them the liberty of not having a couple of minutes in a day for their loved ones.
You need not be emotion less when you feel it. If you miss her, let her know, if you are thinking about her, call her. She loves feeling extraordinary as much as she is crazy about her feelings.
Don’t expect a girl to understand it all, even if she doesn’t, say it out loud, how does it matter, if you just say out loud what you want and when.
A girl would love the charm to be forever, the same love,the chemistry, the bond never to fade away, she loves all the fairy tales and want hers to come true too.
So the logic is really simple, even if you are having fun talking about the other girls, checking them out, having a fun and healthy flirtatious conversations, girls want you to chose them above all.
One of the interesting American comedy romantic movies that I am reminded of when I write this article is What women want starring Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt.
P.S:: A girls heart is really strong, think couple of times before you break one, or she might stop believing in love again 🙂
Paradiso 
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